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Coping with distressing events in the news

How events in the news might impact our wellbeing

We live in a complicated world. Over the past few years headlines have included the cost of living crisis, climate change, wars, natural disasters, coronavirus, terrorism, and political uncertainty.

Some news highlights a difficult reality – like the existence of racism, poverty, and other kinds of inequality. Coverage can seem constant through 24-hour TV, news websites and social media. And for many of us these issues aren’t only in the headlines – they impact our daily lives. 

For example, we may feel:

  • Anxious or worried about what an event means for us, or our loved ones
  • Overwhelmed or stressed – especially when an event is dominating the news
  • Angry or frustrated – for example about injustice
  • Sad or upset
  • Afraid or unsafe
  • Hopeless or powerless about a situation we can’t control
  • Confused about what’s happening, and who we can trust
  • Pressured to always stay informed – and guilty when we can’t
  • Traumatised – as seeing other people experiencing violence or grief can bring up painful feelings and traumatic memories from our own lives
  • Isolated, conflicted or suspicious of others – for example when other people hold opinions you don’t share
  • Unable to enjoy any media – like we can’t use TV or our phones to help us relax any more, when we usually would
  • Unable to switch off or stop scrolling – even though it might be making us feel worse
  • Unsure how to talk about what’s happening – especially to younger children

“My head and mind felt like I was being sucked into a whirlwind of information, and I could feel my anxiety creep back in and wash over me”.

Of course there are always positive and inspiring things happening in the world. And keeping informed about what’s going on around us can feel useful and empowering.

Events may affect each of us differently depending on our own views and experiences. There’s no right or wrong way to feel.

But if you’re finding things hard, you might find the following tips helpful.

Tips for coping with distressing news events

Remember that different things work for different people at different times. If a particular suggestion doesn’t work for you, be kind to yourself. You could try something else, or try again later.

Set boundaries with your news habits

Watching, reading or listening to the news is a helpful way to stay informed. And when a story is developing, it can be tempting to see what everyone else is saying on social media. But if that’s making you feel worse, you might want to change your habits.

You could try to:

  • Set yourself limits, and try to stick to them – like only looking at the news at a certain time of day, or for a set amount of time
  • Mute notifications from news websites and apps, so you only engage with the news when you choose to
  • Tailor your social media – for example by choosing to view certain pages, but not scroll through timelines or newsfeeds
  • Focus on factual content rather than opinions – even though the facts may still be difficult
  • Seek out some positive or uplifting news stories, or scroll social feeds that make you feel good

Remember it’s not possible to keep up to date with everything, and it’s ok to take a break if you need to.

We have more tips on getting a good online / offline balance.

I started to feel overwhelmed with the coronavirus crisis, so I decided to listen to the news just once a day as it was all getting too much and I was getting anxious about all sorts of uncertainties.

Focus on what you can control

It might help to try to focus on what you can control – even if there aren’t many things, or if they only feel small.

To help focus your thoughts you could:

  • Make a list of the things you can change, and the things you can’t
  • Try to notice positive things in your life that are staying the same, despite other things feeling uncertain
  • Try to distract yourself from the things you can’t control – for example with a relaxation exercise